About Lauren Rorschach


Since splitting from my husband in August 2014, I’ve been on an intense journey of self-discovery. I was neglected and ignored during at least half of my 12 year marriage and, dammit, I needed some attention. I started serial dating almost immediately. Being a single, attractive, fit, 40-something “MILF” in San Francisco has proven to be quite fruitful. Join me here as I write about my expedition: the death of my marriage through life as a single dating mama. Oh yes, I kiss and tell!

I was in a serious relationship with Tex from March 2015 to July 2016. He’s mentioned a lot in past entries. He’s one of the first guys I met post-separation and, while our relationship was troubled, it was a great relationship for me in a lot of ways. I felt nurtured for the first time in my life. It was a relationship that filled all of my physical needs and most of my emotional needs.

After 4 months of aggressive serial dating since splitting with Tex, I once again found myself in a relationship. Hayden and I became exclusive in mid November 2016, then he abruptly broke up with me in late January 2017. We remained close friends and eventually and organically found ourselves in a monogamous relationship again by June 2017. Our relationship was better than ever! However, I broke up with him in September 2017 when his heavy binge drinking started affecting our relationship. I haven’t heard from him since.

I’m dating again and [mostly] loving it… but I do yearn for intimacy and connection with someone special.

I almost named this blog Mama Does San Francisco but thought that was too racy. Also, I don’t wear stilettos – they’re not my style – but I thought the name sounded sexy.

**All names have been changed to protect privacy.

I can be reached via email at laurenrors@gmail.com.

If you’re new here, the following posts (listed in no particular order) may give you a better idea of who I am:


22 thoughts on “About Lauren Rorschach”

  1. Haha I actually like that name Mama does San Francisco, so much attitude there! Keep it up the work and thanks for the likes on my blog! 🙂 x

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  2. Hi Lauren! I am very much looking forward to perusing your delicious juicy blog here! I stumbled across your name/blog over on Hyacinth’s blog and I am SO GLAD I DID!!! Isn’t it so exciting to witness so many American’s becoming libertines and less prudes!? 😉 ❤

    Warmest wishes to you Lauren!

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  3. Hello Lauren! I have been reading and have been very interested in your stories and life since you have been writing. It is quite refreshing to keep up with you. There is something about you that brings me back to catch up to see what is going on in your life. Maybe I relate to things, maybe I find something in your words that resonate with me, maybe the way you portray things paints a realistic picture of life today. Maybe all of the above. Thank you for being so real and honest. It is very much appreciated. I have been hesitant to write you over the years in fear that reaching out to contact you would somehow eliminate the aura of anonymity that you present, especially since we live in the same city. I found it necessary to finally write you and say thank you; have a wonderful Sunday

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    • Wow, I am touched. 😊 Thank you for your kind words, and for reaching out. How did you find my blog? Have you been reading from the beginning?

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      • To be completely honest I forgot how I found your blog. I think I was perusing around WordPress and I stumbled across it one day. It was awhile back I began to read about you and your life. It struck a chord as well because you speak about the dating world in San Francisco, that of which I can empathize. I think I have been reading almost from the beginning. I hope reaching out doesn’t break the anonymous vibe for myself towards you, I guess we shall see. I revisit your words and your blog every so often. I think to myself every few weeks, I wonder what Lauren has been up to, I wonder if she doing well. Although I never ask you directly, I have the opportunity to answer my own questions by absorbing your words and stories. Yes, I believe you are doing quite well in this small yet large community of San Francisco. 🙂 It is a refreshing entrance into an intelligent, genuine, honest, and enchanting woman’s world. I am tempted…

        On Sun, Oct 16, 2016, 15:34 Back in Stilettos Again wrote:

        > L. Rorschach commented: “Wow, I am touched. [image: 😊] Thank you for > your kind words, and for reaching out. How did you find my blog? Have you > been reading from the beginning? ” >

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      • Thank you, Romy 😊

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      • No, not at all out of the question. Email me at laurenrors@gmail.com and we’ll discuss. 🙂


  4. Responded. 🙂


  5. hi

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  6. Hi there – I’ll be sending off your interview questions soon. I’ll time them to coincide with your kidtime since you’ll be busy otherwise!

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  7. I just discovered your blog and I must say that I find it captivating.

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  8. Love your blog. Sounds like we’ve lived parallel lives. 😉

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